True Love.....

Biblical definition of love: (Ref. Corithians) - Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things; believes all things; hopes all things; endures all things.

Acording to me i think love is giving, giving and giving and we should not expect any returns..... no matter how feasible is this, but when i think from my heart this is the only definition of LOVE. Sounds so romantic isnt'it? On the other hand for the spiritual person, it is not a sentiment at all, but a state of mind in which love exists.

Recently I read a book, I am quoting a story from that. It goes like this:

A nurse recounted: "While taking care of my patient's wound, we began talking, and he told me that he needed to visit the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. She had been there for a while, a victim of Alzheimer's disease. I asked him if his wife would be worried if he was a bit late, whereupon he replied that due to her loss of memory she no longer knew who he was, nor had she recognized him in five years. I was surprised and asked him: 'And you still go every morning?' I had to hold back tears when he smiled, patted my hand and said: 'She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.' I realized that true love is neither physical nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, that has been, that will or even will not be."

Above story has said so much bout love that really i m feeling short of words... so let me finish by some of my favourite quatation:

"Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me?" - Cinderella

"Love reminds you that nothing else matters." - Amy Bushell -

So thats all for today really "Its good to be in luv, u feel close to GOD.......

U r Blessed if u've a Baby

आज न जाने क्यों मन कर रहा है की कुछ लिखू किंतु जब लिखने बैठी तो कोई भी विषय ही नही सूझ रहा था। थोडी देर आँखें बंद की तो प्रिषा (मेरी बेटी) का ही चेहरा सामने आ गया और मै स्वयं में ही इठलाने को मजबूर हो गयी की आह ! ऐसा भी क्या है मुझमें जो प्रिशी ने मुझे अपनी माँ के रूप में चुना? आज उसे देख देख के मेरा ख़ुद का बचपन ही कई बार सामने चला आता है

बच्चे अपने साथ खुशियों का खजाना लेके आते हैं माता पिता को देने के लिए। प्यार का आनंद प्यार करने में है प्यार पाने में नही। हम जब अपने बचों को प्यार देते हैं, उनकी तकलीफों को दूर कर उन्हें खुश देखते तो अपनी ज़िन्दगी की अनमोल खुशियों हासिल करते हैं। हमारे बच्चों ने हमारे घर जनम लेकर हमें प्यार करने का सुख देकर काफ़ी कुछ दे दिया है। उस से अधिक कीमती प्रतिफल हमें क्या मिल सकता है ......

किन्तु इन सभी बातों को भूलते हुए हम फिर से उम्मीदों का पेड़ खड़ा करने लगते हैं, केवल एक सवाल के साथ इति करना चाहूंगी की क्या मैं या आप भी उनमें से ही एक तो नही होते जा रहे हैं?